Christmas is officially over and now, we are looking towards the new year. I have seen a lot of updates on Facebook, “New Year; New Start.” Yes, if only that were really true. Anyway, that isn’t the topic of this blog.
You probably haven’t noticed but I’ve been away for a few months. My laptop broke and all this other nonsense that has taken me away from this blog. I’ve also changed the name to: Sexually Frustrated Much? So let me begin.
My boyfriend’s sex drive used to be pretty much on the same scale as mine, but over the months, and since we’ve moved in together, it has dramatically dropped. He’s put on weight and he says he feels “pressured” because he sometimes feels like he can’t perform.
It’s become annoying and I’ve been turning to my friends for advice because it is getting silly. Here is a short list of the things he has started doing recently:
- Rejecting me when I come on to him
- Telling me to stop when I touch him
- Telling me to stop when I kiss his neck (or try to do anything sexual)
- Tells me that we won’t have sex even before we get past foreplay
- Isn’t turned on by me in sexy underwear
- Isn’t turned on by me naked
There’s more, but I’ll stick with six. I am so sexually frustrated! I’ve been contemplating getting a dildo. He’s even told me to get a lover but not to tell him about it. ARGH! Of course, I’m not going to do that because I love him too much and I want sex with HIM.
I’m so frustrated! I just want our crazy, kinky sex life back.
